Please,Have Mercy On Us! Evans Wife Calls In From Ghana, Begs Nigerians
The call was an amazement. Also, in the expressions of Vanguard’s Crime Editor, Emma Nnadozie “it was stunning yet uncovering and even pitiful.” The guest had said “hang on for Evans’ significant other.” The female voice immediately argued to Mr. Nnadozie to get back to her as she didn’t have enough credit. Nnadozie restored the call from Ghana and the guest revealed to her story. Extracts:
My name is Uchenna Precious Onwuamadike, the spouse of the Chikwudubem Onwuamadike who you call Evans. I am 31 years of age. I got hitched to Evans at 17 years old at Oraifite, Anambra state in 2004.
He met me while I was returning from lesson as an understudy of All Saints Secondary School, Oraifite and I was in class 6 going to take my West African Examination. After we met, I consented to run with him due to my poor foundation.
He revealed to me his dad wedded three spouses when he was six years of age and tossed his mom out of his home. He said that one of the spouses impacted his dad to drive them out of his home additionally and they were compelled to remain with outcasts. Evans was taken to his grandma who prepared him. He disclosed to me his dad blamed the mother for being two-timing before driving her out of his home.
Our marriage is honored with five youngsters. Our first issue is 12 years in addition to and her name is Udochukwu. After we got hitched, he said I ought to remain with his mom in his town at Akanmiri, Umudim, Nnewi to show me how to be a decent housewife. I was there for a long time before he took me to Lagos. We were inhabiting Satellite town in 2006 and following one year, he migrated us back to the town since he couldn’t pay house lease.
While in the town, he regularly came to see us. We put in three years in the town and moved to Ghana. On our approach to Ghana, we went through Lagos and remained at Benny Hotels in Festac where we burned through two days before making a trip to Ghana.
He went through a month with us in Ghana before returning to Lagos. I was pregnant with our fourth kid in 2010 when he cleared out for Nigeria to return two months time. After I conceived an offspring, he returned four months after the fact and could clear the collected bills we kept for him since I acquired cash from companions to clear healing facility charge. When he returned, he griped severely that things were harsh for him in Nigeria and that traditions grabbed his products.
I didn’t know that he was into capturing and all the criminal demonstrations he is being related with now. All I think about his business is that he was into haulage, purchasing motor and extra parts for trucks and imports fumes channels. That was what he let me know. He kept me in Ghana because on the grounds that he said our youngsters ought to get quality training.
I have put in six years here and after I prevented got notification from him, I called and griped intensely however he said I ought to remain for quite a while. I at that point called his companion, Okechukwu, who now lives in China. He disclosed to me that he has not been seeing him and that he invests the vast majority of his energy with a sweetheart in Festac. When I called him to gripe, he was irate with me and cautioned that I ought to quit tuning in to chatter. He said that If I ought to return, I ought to go to his more youthful sibling’s home in Lagos until he is prepared to get convenience for us. The sibling was formally living in Lagos however he is in Brazil now. In this way, when it was difficult to pay my youngsters’ school expenses, I gathered my sacks and stuff and returned to Lagos with our kids.
We remained at his sibling’s home at Agric, near Trade Fair until he took us to a house in Magodo where he asserted he owed lease pending the finish of his own home there. We have spent only one year in that house in Magodo. I have no clue about the kind of business he was into however he revealed to me that his companions abroad used to purchase telephones and adornments for him.
While in Lagos, i was sit still and I compelled him to discover something for me to do and he guaranteed. A few times, I requesting that he take me to his office however he said they move from place to place to offload products in haulage business and offer benefits. I can’t had any guest in our home. It is just the operator called Sunny that helped us to pack into our home that I know. On occasion, craftsmans come to do one repair or the other, that’s it in a nutshell.
I don’t have a clue about any of his companions and in the event that we were welcome to gatherings, he would not enable us to go to. He revealed to me that he has no companions and that he abhors partner with individuals. I was dependably inside in light of the fact that he cautioned me to be careful with Lagos ladies that they are wayward.
I was staying inside and it was just when I was wiped out that he took me to a healing center in Ikeja. I generally have BP and it makes powerless. We backpedaled to Ghana on the sixth of this current month and he guaranteed to go along with us in no far off time. On the ninth, I called him to know when he would be coming and even the most youthful of our kids was crying, beseeching him to come as quickly as time permits and he guaranteed to come. Toward the evening, I called yet he was not picking.
I called once more, there was commotion out of sight and the line was turned off. I at that point called the driver that took us to the engine pack when we were going to Ghana and he revealed to me that there was an issue, that police came and captured Oga and that they accompanied a reasonable complexioned woman. When I heard every one of the affirmations against him, I called his sibling in Ghana, his mom, father and different relations yet I couldn’t get them.
I at that point called their last conceived, an understudy at Oko Polytechnic however he said he had not talked with him for long. I was befuddled until I opened Niger news and Vanguard Websites. That was the manner by which I got the stunning news about my significant other.
I caved in and later called my children to educate them what I simply perused about their dad. From that point forward, I have not eaten, I am still in stun. Our kids couldn’t accept what they were perusing about their dad. They are stating that he can’t do every one of the things they said he did. Truth be told, while we were in Nigeria, he had never rested outside our home. My youngsters were crying when they saw his ridiculous eyes and swollen face. Our condition was exacerbated when I saw my photo with him and our youngsters on the face book. I don’t know where they got it.
I have not been getting cash from him, I have never observed his cash. The main thing I know is that there was a period he purchased a costly watch in Dubai and I needed to know why he got it when he couldn’t open any business for me. He continued prodding me, asserting it originated from a companion. It was just when we needed to go to South Africa a year ago Christmas where we put in two years that he gave me N200, 000 for the outing. I have never considered him to be a rich man. While with him, we ensured we had all we needed to eat and there’s nothing more to it.
I can’t saw any indication of fortune in him. He is not a glad man and he has been wearing one shoe and shoes for long at this point. He doesn’t go for gatherings. Truth be told, I have never speculated him as a criminal. On the off chance that I have been seeing any odd things, I would have suspected him. We have three autos, one Hilux, one thousand Cherokee and a SUV. The N20m they said he sent to me through exchange was given to one Hausa man to pay into a record in Ghana to be utilized as a part of paying our lease and outfit the house in Ghana. I know he manages an account with GTB as it were. Their staff used to visit us in the house. I am not mindful that he has five lady friends and I have never presumed him since he didn’t keep late evenings. It was stunning to find out about his sweethearts.
He didn’t answer brings in my nearness. I used to see his telephones being charged yet he typically turned them off. I generally asked him for what reason utilize stick code to bolt his telephones and that he carried on with a mystery life yet he undermined to beat me if at any point I touched any of his telephones. I didn’t know the security stick. He would go out some of the time in the nights with his telephones and would return in the vicinity of 8pm and 9pm. A large portion of the things I read about him are weird to me. As his significant other, I ought to have seen the signs yet I have not.
He has tumor and does not drink liquor nor smoke anything. I have never observed firearm in our home. I don’t know where they got those startling firearms.
He has never revealed to me he has another house at Igando. At whatever time he went out, he generally called to ask after the kids and promise me that he would be back soon. I am suspecting that whatever transpired more likely than not originated from his dad’s second spouse. I don’t realize what he did to him when he was youthful however he recounted the story. He said that after their mom was driven out of the house, he was with his siblings playing outside one day when the second spouse called him to pick a basin and gather water for her. He was four years at that point, he picked the basin, gathered water and when he returned, she expelled her dress and she was wearing just a sack produced using creature skin on her midsection. She brought seven little stones from the sack, provided for Evans and requested him to empty the stones into the basin to know whether the rock would rise (cruise) on top of the water or not. Evans said he did as she coordinated yet the main thing the lady did was to take the can back and requested him to backpedal and play with his siblings. He said he told his dad later however he said he was telling falsehoods.
I feel terrible in light of the fact that I didn’t know whether he was doing all these or not. Regardless of the possibility that he was into all these, why did he not stop as a result of me and his kids? All the time when we supplicate, he used to guarantee God that he would reveal to Him his story further down the road. He peruses song 23 a ton. Indeed, even his telephone, he sets caution for 12 twelve to peruse song 23. He participated in our every day petitions in the morning, night and night. He used to lead us in supplications. We go to Anglican Church. He has never given them cash to flaunt. We used to give N5000 or N10,000 and the most elevated we have given so far was N50,000 when we sanctified through water one of our children.
I am appealing to the powers that be to spare his life (crying), as I speak now, I am kneeling down with my children, crying and begging for forgiveness.
Have mercy on us. He did not know what he was doing. He did not know what came over him. I am ready to come back to Nigeria and plead on his behalf.
What I am reading in the news is shocking. Though, I have not heard that he killed anybody but all those he injured or took their money should please forgive him because me and my children. They should kindly forgive him, he will repent.
God knows I will not be alive and see my husband doing bad thing and keep quiet. All his wealth should be sold off and given to his victims.
Evans is a good man. He takes care of all his relations including the children of the second wife we are suspecting did this to him. He has just two houses in Ghana but I have never seen them. I saw the house on his phone. Since I have been living with him, he has never injured anybody or beat me. He has milk of human kindness in his heart. He has not been harsh or wicked to anybody. He always advised us to be prayerful I (starts crying again) and complains bitterly any time I failed to pray. His neighbours also know him as a kind and generous man. Members of my family are worse hit by this ugly development.
They said some people brought newspaper publications to show them about their in-law and they have been wondering if he actually did all that because he has been good to all of them. I am from a very good, God-fearing family and if any of us had suspected this in him, they would have forced me out of his house for long. I am ready to come back and testify on his behalf. I will also like to see the Governor of Lagos state and explain the whole thing to him. They said he is rich but I have only N13, 000 in my Diamond bank account. He does not give me money. He told me he will be paying N40, 000 into my account every month but after two months, he stopped, claiming that he was penniless.